Book Review: The Art of Fully Living

The Art of Fully Living: 1 Man. 10 Years. 100 Life Goals Around the World is an amazing book about a man who did just what the book’s title implies. Author Tal Gur is a bucket list maker extraordinaire.

Gur, an Israeli, yearns to learn English and knows the best way to go about this goal is total immersion. He travels to Australia, learns the language and while there immerses himself in the culture, becoming totally involved with his surroundings. He goes on to complete an Ironman triathlon event in New Zealand. Gur pushes himself to achieve these successes—many times to the point of discomfort and exhaustion. He realizes his own strength and determination, and goes on to face his next life’s goal. He continues to travel the world and become involved in what each country offers. His journey isn’t without hardship and sometimes despair, but he learns to listen to his body and heart. He learns to view a negative situation from a positive angle, to reflect on what is important. Through flexibility and adaptability, he realizes that life is a balancing act.

Gur’s accomplishments through his world travels, his impressive achievements and the choices he made aren’t for everyone. But what is of value to everybody is learning how to achieve what is important to that individual. We each must have some type of goal in order to grow. Gur offers wisdom that applies to everyone:

– Stop accumulating “stuff.” The less stuff, the more freedom you have
– Declutter your life, curb excess buying
– Stay out of debt
– Embrace uncertainty. Let go of the need to control.
– Remember that the journey is more important than the destination

In this review I have attempted to cover the highlights, but in so doing realize there is so much more than reducing this book to these few points. I highly recommend The Art of Fully Living. It has something for everyone.

Book Review: Walk the Promise Road

I could feel the dust and grime of the trail when I read Anne Schroeder’s Walk the Promise Road: A Novel of the Oregon Trail.

When Mary Rodgers’mother, father and little brother die from an influenza epidemic, she’s not only heartbroken, she’s alone in the world. She does have her cousin Philip, but he’s soon to leave Illinois to join his fiancé in Oregon. Mary, not quite eighteen, is determined to have a life, not be married off to someone she doen’t even love. She convinces her cousin that she could join him, that they could travel as a married couple. After all, they have the same last name. There would be no way a wagon train would take a young woman without a husband–it would be unseemly, and could cause trouble among the single men. Philip, not much older than Mary, could not be considered a proper escort. Philip resists, but Mary convinces him that it would not only work, but that she would be an asset on the trip, a helpmate.

It’s April, 1848 when they meet their travel companions in Independence, Missouri. The wagonmaster and Lucas Sayer, his half-Indian trail scout, assemble the 117 people and their 61 wagons and set out for the 2,000-mile journey. Mary and Philip’s secret seems to work, and they are known as “the Rodgers” and assumed to be husband and wife.

When Lucas begins spending time at the Rogers’ fireside, Mary struggles to keep their secret. Lucas is the most desirable man she’s ever known, and it’s obvious that he feels the same about her. Other travelers notice and tongues begin to wag.

I particularly appreciated Anne Schroeder’s realistic description of the hard journey west. I’ve always loved stories about the Oregon Trail and this novel is exceptional in its authenticity. It’s amazing that the west was ever settled. Emigrants constantly struggled to move forward, bone-tired and thirsty. Wagons broke down, stock died from exhaustion, people died of disease or lack of desire to struggle on. There were always those who prepared, like Philip, and those who did not and ultimately had to depended on others. For women and many of the older children, the journey was made mostly on foot, doing everything they could to lighten the load for the mules, horses or oxen that pulled the heavy wagons. There was either not enough water, or too much water. Heartbroken women left their treasures along the trail in order to lighten the load so the beasts wouldn’t die in their traces. Travelers bickered, some went their own way, often with disastrous results. It was a long, grueling journey and the lucky ones arrived in Oregon six long months later.

Walk the Promise Road is a journey to remember.

Book Review: Girl Warrior

Carmen Peone’s novel Girl Warrior shows what determination and grit can do in the face of bullies and hard decisions.

Charnaye Toulou lives on the Colville Reservation in eastern Washington. She’s a high school senior now and has much to look forward to. Her family has had a hard time since her father was in a car accident which left him paraplegic. Charnaye’s mother, a teacher, is the only wage-earner in the family and they’ve had a hard time managing their ranch and household expenses.

Although Charnaye is a good student, her time at school is riddled with anxiety. Hagen, a bully, is relentless in his jibes about her dream of competing in the Omak Stampede’s Suicide Race. True, girls usually don’t participate in this rugged competition. The races, held over a four-day period, are tough on horses and riders, to say nothing of the grueling training required. Many of the participants, including Charnaye, are Natives and the race traditionally has been a male-only event, although there have been women competitors, including her grandmother.

Charnaye also competes in archery. If she wins the competition in that, she might earn enough money to help pay household and medical expenses. But if she could win the big event, the Suicide Race, she could earn a big cash prize.

Charnaye is nearly overwhelmed as tension builds with her school work, end-of-year senior activities, cruel bullying tactics, and her looming competitions. And to top it off, her dream of competing in the Suicide Race is dependent on somehow acquiring a horse that is up to the task. Her own horse, though reliable, is not sturdy enough to participate in that grueling race.

Girl Warrior is highly suspenseful and loaded with Native folklore and interesting facts about the Suicide Race. The novel aptly describes the angst many teens experience as they are about to enter the adult world.

Book Review: Me Before You

I loved Me Before You written by JoJo Moyes, an English journalist and romance novelist. I’m not usually a romance reader, yet I found Me Before You a fascinating love story, funny, surprising, sometimes tearful, and certainly thought provoking.

The story takes place in a small English village known for Stortford Castle, a well-known tourist attraction. Louisa Clark is, by most standards, eccentric. At 26, she has held the most menial jobs, the latest working in a café. But she loves serving customers. Her dress style is…flamboyant, not with any particular style. Let’s say she dresses with a style of her own. Although she comes from a loving, close-knit family, she is often the brunt of their jokes. Her younger sister has the “brains of the family” and is a university student. Her father’s employment situation is precarious and the family relies on Louise’s income.

Will Traynor comes from great wealth; in fact, his family owns Stortford Castle. He has much to show for his own achievements. Will loved life, had a successful business and was known for his dare-devil lifestyle. When, as a pedestrian, he is struck by a motorcycle, his injuries are severe and permanent. He is instantly a quadriplegic and must rely on others for his existence. His life is broken beyond repair and he is not compliant.

When the café where Louise works goes out of business, she is left without a job, a frightening possibility for her and her family. She goes to the employment office and interviews for a job caring for Will Traynor. Louisa and Will couldn’t have been more different. But as their lives intertwine, something unexpected happens.

When Louise learns that Will has shocking plans for his own life, she sets out to show him that life is worth living.

From Me Before You I learned a few things, too, about the world of a quadriplegic and all that it takes to sustain life. The novel is rich with English tradition and lifestyle, which I enjoy.